Baby Warren getting midwife love as he fell asleep in my arms during a prenatal! In case you wonder why we run late sometimes… 😬#midwifelife
Sometimes it is so hard being a midwife: the constant on-call, weird sleeping hours, to name two big ones. But at the final visit when you see these happy babies it’s so worth it. When I witness a woman have a birth on her terms, her way, it reminds me of the value of sacrifice. This mama had her HBA1C and rocked it! @nikkie_cossette #homebirth #vbac #ybac
That Super Moon 🌕 lulled 9 babies out in 9 days, many early! These lovely twin sisters arrived quickly, one in the shower and one in the birthing tub. More details to follow! Many thanks to my lovely friends @nicolemoralesmidwife and @victoria_md_birthing for their help and support! #twinsathome #homebirth #midwives
Took a minute to step out and thank those who have sent Birthday wishes! So excited to finish 57 years as I sit in a labor with a mama who is getting close to pushing. Thank you all!!
So….we got a dog! For those of you who know us will appreciate what a big deal this is. This is Hank and we knew him for 9 months before we got him. His family had to move and couldn’t keep all the animals they had. We had said “If you ever have to surrender Hank, we want first dibs”. It’s like he was always ours. He has been to 3 births, hanging out in the temperature controlled van. He LOVES the van. #midwifedog #miniaustralianshepard #deafdogsrock
@MallorieBedard3 had a difficult first planned homebirth that ended in a necessary cesarean, with a different midwife team. We had been booked solid when she sought us out the first time aound so we were thrilled to be able to shepherd her with her second pregnancy. Story coming soon! Thank you @doulatamij Splendid hvbac! #vbac #homebirth #midwives #daughters
When you attend a baby shower and see your other mamas and babies!
There are many paths to motherhood. Some are marked by joy, others by loss—and many by both. Every soul that passes through our lives leaves an imprint, shaping us as parents in ways seen and unseen.
So this happened…
Some recent fun on our smaller down time moments from concerts at Chapman University to cow hugging in Santa Clarita.
Working with Surrogacy requires a unique awareness. How each phrase is worded matters in a whole new way. Things I’m used to saying to a pregnant mama don’t quite translate the same way when speaking to a mama through IVF. One mama is serving and surrendering, the other is receiving and preparing. The beautiful shared bond between these two mothers was the life blood of this birth. I’ve noticed that first babies of any type (for either parent) usually have longer labors that match the need for deep surrender and humility. I prepared Rachael for this reality knowing that though Rachael had children prior- this labor would be more akin to giving birth for the first time as energetically it was for Sam and Jesse to become parents for the first time. The Birth Day Prep class was tailored to address some of the subtle nuance this situation would call for so that on the birthing day we all felt as prepared as possible. Even the immediate postpartum was very interesting! I had one mama that I had to monitor for bleeding and recovery while guiding the other through establishing bonding. For keeping the uterus toned and tight, being around Zion was important for Rachael. Richard was indispensable in navigating the two very different needs of each of the two fathers present, providing them the grounding and support that was so needed.
How do midwives recuperate? We hug cows. @thegentlebarn
The fully narrated story of Barbie & David’s beautiful twin birth! If you’d rather read the story than listen, it’s in the comments.
Samantha was diagnosed with cancer, and lost her uterus to save her own life. Despite this tragedy, she was able to harvest her eggs and still realize her dreams of motherhood. She’s just welcomed her second home-birthed surrogate baby, Autumn. Her first born son, Zion, was carried by Samantha’s best friend. The two women labored together in the tub, culminating in Samantha catching her son as he was born. Stay turned for the full birth story with photos and videos of that magical moment!! We realize IVF and surrogacy can be controversial topics in the holistic & spiritual birth world, however this is not the forum for negative comments or debates and we thank you in advance for respecting Samantha’s journey.
Even a labor delivery nurse and her nurse practitioner husband choose to birth at home- what a powerful testament this is to the sacred beauty of natural birth. Swipe to see video of @mrshaileylopez peacefully ushering her daughter into this world in the comfort of her bedroom, embraced by warm water and surrounded by gentle lights and love.
Twin water babies, one breech, both born in their sacs and on TWO different days! Birth story coming soon ✨
Even when birth is difficult there is the undercurrent of transformation. Sometimes these revelations come to us right after birth, sometimes hours, sometimes years. I am continually in awe of the strength of women because they face the experience without this insight beforehand. There is no guarantee about anything with pregnancy or birth, so that speaks to her courage. This is Jen’s third birth, and third transformation. #waterbirth #homebirth #socal #midwifery
Our last vacation was ten years ago. We are announcing a 2 week rest from April 7-21, 2025. We will have someone on call during those days. Remember the post about a November vacation? Well, some repeat clients got pregnant and we didn’t have the heart to not attend them. This time we are prioritizing our own need for balance, even if you were my most beloved friend, we are going to go! Pardon the hat (thank you @lovefromnatalee) in Richard’s face. We don’t take many photos of ourselves so this was the best I had! #vacation
To witness a truly blissful birth is very humbling, where your main job is to witness and hold space. Sophia smiled with her waves and smiled when she pushed and then this grand smile! It was splendid! #blissfulbirth #orgasmicbirth #waterbirth #secondbaby #birthbywater
Since #Instagram didn’t respond to my request for a review I am reposting this amazing clip. I did, however, edit to show the head crowned so that their AI won’t immediately tag as p*rn. #dobetterinstagram #posteriorbirth
Today, we honor all forms of mothering: the birthing, the grieving, the waiting, and the loving. May this day be a gentle reminder of our extraordinary capacity to nurture, protect, and grow life—in all its forms.
Me with my daughter @catcassio and my son serving in the Army @chapman.orr
I had the privilege of caring for my beautiful niece/client, @karamariefagan, and her partner, @zaidkdahhaj, throughout their pregnancy. During labor, after thoughtful discussion, we decided to transport due to a lack of descent and the need for pain management. As a former athlete with a background in gymnastics, soccer, diving, volleyball, and track, Kara faced unique challenges related to past injuries—something we cover in depth during our Birth Prep class so families understand all their options.
I accompanied them to the hospital, where it was later determined that a cesarean was necessary. At some point, Kara developed a fever, but the hospital team managed it well. Months later, I was shocked to learn that I was being investigated for negligence—not by the family, but by the hospital itself. Initially, I thought perhaps Kara’s dad, a doctor, had concerns, but that didn’t add up. He had attended our consultation and the Birth Prep class and understood exactly how we approach care.
It turns out the hospital initiated the investigation. I hadn’t fully realized that even when families choose to transport, hospitals can still take issue. @zaidkdahhaj may weigh in here, but this experience has been eye-opening in many ways.
Midwives, birth workers, families—have you experienced anything like this? Let’s talk about it.
This was truly a moving experience as we were able to expand our learning with such beautiful souls!
We recognize that surrogacy & IVF can be controversial topics, however this is not the forum for debate. Please respect the journeys of these beautiful families.
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Narrated by: @catcassio
Sound design & editing by: @cassio.creative
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