Lisa Marie Oxenham, LM, CPM  & Richard Oxenham, Student Midwife


Serving Orange County, the Inland Empire and parts of Los Angeles County

Ways to pay

Sacred Journey Midwifery uses an inclusive fee structure, so our clients know the costs in advance of labor and delivery. We want our clients to relax and enjoy their home waterbirth experience, not worry about hidden costs.

Clients do not receive additional charges or discounts for a shorter or longer labor and delivery experiences. 

We accept payment via several convenient methods:

  • Square Cash – cash.app/$$SJMidwifery
  • Zelle – LisaMarieOxenham@gmail.com or RichardFOxenham@gmail.com
  • Check or Money Order – find instructions under the FILES tab at Maternity Neighborhood.
  • Credit Card – Visa, Mastercard, Discover, and American Express accepted with an additional 3 percent service fee.
  • Also we offer United Medical Credit Union, which offers up to two years of interest free payments.

    For specific pricing please set up a consultation.

Happy International Day of the Midwife to all who have midwifed me in various ways over the years. This is a perfect opportunity to introduce my student, Breana @mysticmothering, who spotted me during a birth and connected on multiple levels, sharing a mutual intention. She, along with La Kiesha @agapebirth_wellness round out our practice beautifully. You will be seeing more of her and Kiesha here! #students #studentmidwife #friends ...

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As a @SpinningBabies Aware Practitioner, I am keenly aware of the need for body work in pregnancy and postpartum. It is safe and supportive when done by someone who is specifically trained to support the pregnant and freshly delivered state.

These are unique phases where the body needs a different kind of care—slower, more intentional, and responsive to the nervous system.

I’ve recently started referring some of my clients to Cameron, and it’s been really supportive to have someone I trust to send people to.

The work is gentle, attuned, and focused on helping the body settle—not just working on tension, but supporting regulation and recovery as a whole.

If you’re currently pregnant, or postpartum and feeling like your body could use more support, this is something worth exploring. If you’re a person supporting someone who is pregnant you may need some self care too! Cameron, like us, is a fully mobile practice.

You can connect with him here → @knotsandhands.sd
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My student Breana @mysticmothering was at a baby shower when a fellow midwife asked her who her Preceptor was. The midwife then asked “Is it true that she keeps her birth tubs cold?” Breana, surprised, said no and inquired about why I might do that. “To shock the babies, so that they breath”….something to that effect. As many of you are aware I enjoy the science aspect of waterbirth, but more importantly is the babies experience of their birth as well as the mother’s experience. I have never promoted cold water as that is such a shock to the nervous system. The typical range is anywhere from 96 , if it’s a hot day/room, to 98 degrees. Baby does not need to be shocked to breathe: they breathe when they are introduced to the atmosphere. Many of you know the rest as some of my videos explain it quite thoroughly. We got a good laugh from that!! Richard is performing step 8 from our notebook we leave at the home at the Birth Prep Meeting: smooth the creases out! #waterbirth #homebirth #naturalbirth ...

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So….we got a dog! For those of you who know us will appreciate what a big deal this is. This is Hank and we knew him for 9 months before we got him. His family had to move and couldn’t keep all the animals they had. We had said “If you ever have to surrender Hank, we want first dibs”. It’s like he was always ours. He has been to 3 births, hanging out in the temperature controlled van. He LOVES the van. #midwifedog #miniaustralianshepard #deafdogsrock ...

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@MallorieBedard3 had a difficult first planned homebirth that ended in a necessary cesarean, with a different midwife team. We had been booked solid when she sought us out the first time aound so we were thrilled to be able to shepherd her with her second pregnancy. Story coming soon! Thank you @doulatamij Splendid hvbac! #vbac #homebirth #midwives #daughters ...

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When you attend a baby shower and see your other mamas and babies! ...

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So this happened…

I had the privilege of caring for my beautiful niece/client, @karamariefagan, and her partner, @zaidkdahhaj, throughout their pregnancy. During labor, after thoughtful discussion, we decided to transport due to a lack of descent and the need for pain management. As a former athlete with a background in gymnastics, soccer, diving, volleyball, and track, Kara faced unique challenges related to past injuries—something we cover in depth during our Birth Prep class so families understand all their options.

I accompanied them to the hospital, where it was later determined that a cesarean was necessary. At some point, Kara developed a fever, but the hospital team managed it well. Months later, I was shocked to learn that I was being investigated for negligence—not by the family, but by the hospital itself. Initially, I thought perhaps Kara’s dad, a doctor, had concerns, but that didn’t add up. He had attended our consultation and the Birth Prep class and understood exactly how we approach care.

It turns out the hospital initiated the investigation. I hadn’t fully realized that even when families choose to transport, hospitals can still take issue. @zaidkdahhaj may weigh in here, but this experience has been eye-opening in many ways.

Midwives, birth workers, families—have you experienced anything like this? Let’s talk about it.
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Working with Surrogacy requires a unique awareness. How each phrase is worded matters in a whole new way. Things I’m used to saying to a pregnant mama don’t quite translate the same way when speaking to a mama through IVF. One mama is serving and surrendering, the other is receiving and preparing. The beautiful shared bond between these two mothers was the life blood of this birth. I’ve noticed that first babies of any type (for either parent) usually have longer labors that match the need for deep surrender and humility. I prepared Rachael for this reality knowing that though Rachael had children prior- this labor would be more akin to giving birth for the first time as energetically it was for Sam and Jesse to become parents for the first time. The Birth Day Prep class was tailored to address some of the subtle nuance this situation would call for so that on the birthing day we all felt as prepared as possible. Even the immediate postpartum was very interesting! I had one mama that I had to monitor for bleeding and recovery while guiding the other through establishing bonding. For keeping the uterus toned and tight, being around Zion was important for Rachael. Richard was indispensable in navigating the two very different needs of each of the two fathers present, providing them the grounding and support that was so needed.

This was truly a moving experience as we were able to expand our learning with such beautiful souls!

We recognize that surrogacy & IVF can be controversial topics, however this is not the forum for debate. Please respect the journeys of these beautiful families.

#surrogacy #IVF #homebirth #waterbirth #waterbaby #surrogate #midwife #midwifelife #babies #birthphotography #naturalbirth #birthstory #birth
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How do midwives recuperate? We hug cows. @thegentlebarn ...

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The fully narrated story of Barbie & David’s beautiful twin birth! If you’d rather read the story than listen, it’s in the comments.

Narrated by: @catcassio
Sound design & editing by: @cassio.creative

#waterbirth #naturalbirth #homebirth #twinbirth #twins #twinsisters #spinningbabies #breech #breechbirth #waterbaby #midwife #doula #midwifelife #birthstory
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