Lisa Marie Oxenham, LM, CPM  & Richard Oxenham, Student Midwife


Serving Orange County, the Inland Empire and parts of Los Angeles County

Resources

Resources for Gentle Birth Choices and Natural Home Births

Congratulations on your decision to have a natural home birth! Gentle birth choices can empower birthing persons and their partners, giving them more control over the birthing experience. As part of our inclusive concierge-style service, Sacred Journey Midwifery provides resources before, during, and after labor and delivery to ensure our clients have the support that they need for achieving positive natural home birth. Need additional support beyond what you see here? Reach out to Lisa Marie and Richard and they will be happy to assist!

Breastfeeding Support

Not all birthing mothers choose to breastfeed, but it is highly encouraged. Breastfeeding has proven benefits for baby beyond providing the essential nutrition he or she needs to flourish. Breastmilk boosts babies’ immune systems, providing some protection again common childhood infections. It also is linked to a lower risk for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. 

Even when birth mothers choose to breastfeed, they still may face challenges. Sore nipples, low milk supply, plugged ducts, fungal infections, and engorgement are just a few of the most common. We provide breastfeeding support to our clients who wish to breastfeed but need assistance working out the issues. 

We also recommend Cassandra Romero, IBCLC, and founder of The Cleavage Club support group on Facebook. Our clients can reach her at 562-616-3830. Other breastfeeding support resources include the La Leche League International. 

Counseling

We are deeply sensitive to having a trauma-informed practice. We believe in catering to a birthing person’s body, mind, and spirit. In addition to the steps that we take to protect and nurture birthing persons who have endured previous trauma, we have found that some of our clients find it helpful to receive mental health support as part of their natural home births. We recommend these two resources:
  • Orange County – Marissa Zwetow, 949-424-3034.
  • Inland Empire – Olson Family Therapy, Ruth and Tim Olson, 951-494-3008.

Professional Referral List

Midwives are just one component of successful natural home birth. To help our clients achieve a happy and healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery, we recommend the following professionals.

Redlands

Acupuncturists

Kerry Carlos: 909-809-9596

Fountain Valley

Acupuncturists

Tina Singh: 949-257-7622

Cord Blood Banking

Arcadia

Chiropractors
Cathy Ng: 626-344-8586

Brea

Chiropractors
Anastasia Lander: 714-931-0475

Chino

Chiropractors
Sam Ruiz: 909-529-1179

Chino

Chiropractors
Dr. Debbie & Dr. Vu-909-591-1300

Costa Mesa

Chiropractors
Steven Shaffer

Costa Mesa

Chiropractors
Silvana Balsimelli: 714-556-3030

Idyllwild

Chiropractors
Judi Milin: 951-659-4522

Irvine

Chiropractors
Delaram Shekarriz. 949-263-0270

La Canada

Chiropractors
Rion Zimmerman: 818-952-0172

Laguna Niguel

Chiropractors
Dr. Scott Waddell – Orange County – (408) 234-9349

Long Beach

Chiropractors
Amy Forrest-Readdy. 562-270-5503

Murrieta

Chiropractors
Todd Donohoe-951-677-6500

Newport Beach

Chiropractors
Billy DeMoss: 949-250-0600

Orange

Chiropractors
Anne Lundquist: (Spinning Babies Aware Practitioner) 714-633-1648. ChiropracticForPregnancy

Rancho Cucamonga

Chiropractors
Jon Torrios: 909-483-5433

Rancho Cucamonga

Chiropractors
Blissful Wellness-909-276-7168

Rancho Cucamonga

Chiropractors
Abby Ramsey-909-375-6757

Redlands

Chiropractors
Jason Palmer-909-793-4515

Redlands

Chiropractors
Nate Coffin: 909-798-5433

Redlands

Chiropractors
Dr. Timothy Stein: CA (909) 645-4491 (Pediatric)

Riverside

Chiropractors
Brian Feilteau: 951-880-7423

Riverside

Chiropractors
Bryan Dzvonick-951-202-2340

Riverside

Chiropractors
Majed Nagoulat-951-888-1538

Long Beach

Dentists
Robert McBride: 562-508-4915

Tustin

Dentists
Hannah DeBourg:714-935-0020

Inland Empire

Dentists
Dr. James Jesse: 909- 799-9988

High Desert

Doulas
Amber Patterson: 760-987-3099

Inland Empire

Doulas
Kiesha Davis: 909-532-9674

Inland Empire

Doulas
Valerie Watson: 951-300-6424

Inland Empire

Doulas
Jessica Crawford: 909-202-9728

Inland Empire

Doulas
Vivian Diaz: 909-510-7989

Long Beach

Doulas
Shelley Fitzgerald: 801-859-9691

Orange County

Doulas
Sara Venaglia: (postpartum only) 804-837-3441

Orange County

Doulas
Carrie Mendes: 310-498-8314

San Gabriel Valley

Doulas
Jana Smolenski at BirthInstincts.com

Orange County

Hypnobabies Instructor
Carrie Mendes: 310-498-8314
Illness/Nausea Products
Best Nest Wellness
Illness/Nausea Products
Pink Stork Solutions
Midwifery Insurance Billers
Tara Cannon: 562-208-5059 tara@midwiferysolutions.com

Kaiser Members

Pediatricians/DO

Dr. James David Kileen

Mobile Practice

Pediatricians/DO

DO/Dr. Terri Brady: 833-372-7239

Brea

Pediatricians/DO

Lauren Stearns-714-671-2936

Chino Hills

Pediatricians/DO

Daryl Tsai-909-393-6202. Accepts Medi-Cal.

Claremont

Pediatricians/DO

Stacey Meise:909-625-1100

Irvine

Pediatricians/DO

Michael Aufdemberg-949-786-5437

Long Beach

Pediatricians/DO

Mike Vicioso-562-473-4441

Long Beach

Pediatricians/DO

Alex Maneffa-562-481-3500

Murrieta

Pediatricians/DO

Ron Becker-951-600-2681

Newport Beach

Pediatricians/DO

Dane Fliedner-949-788-1111

Redlands

Pediatricians/DO

Nadia Mistry-909-793-4477

Sacramento

Pediatricians/DO

Helene Malabed, DO-916-436-1929

Beaumont

Photographers

Chris Escobar-909-380-4314

Murrieta

Photographers

Sara Harrison-951-757-4136

Seal Beach

Photographers

Aimee Sugar-480-213-0129

Seal Beach

Photographers

San Gabriel Valley: Jana Smolenski at BirthInstincts.com

Fullerton

Placenta Encapsulation

Brittany Noelle-714-519-8010

Orange

Placenta Encapsulation

Sheryl Vicencio-714-624-6315

Riverside

Placenta Encapsulation

Valerie Watson-951-300-642

Inland Empire

Postpartum Doulas

Valerie Watson: 951-300-6424

Los Angeles County

Postpartum Doulas

Laura Brown: 818-437-4378

Orange County

Postpartum Doulas

Sara Venaglia: 804-837-3441

Redlands

Postpartum Doulas

Jessica Crawford: 909-202-9728

San Gabriel Valley/IE

Postpartum Doulas

Evelyn Diaz: 909-510-7992

San Gabriel Valley/IE

Postpartum Doulas

Vivian Diaz: 909-510-7989

Orange County

Pelvic Floor PT’s

PelvicSanity: 949-393-1113

Orange County

Pelvic Floor PT’s

Sarton Physical Therapy: 714-770-8222

Orange County

Pelvic Floor PT’s

Whitney Sippl: 262-391-7943

Orange County

Pelvic Floor PT’s

Orange County: Debora Chasse-714-812-9887

Happy International Day of the Midwife to all who have midwifed me in various ways over the years. This is a perfect opportunity to introduce my student, Breana @mysticmothering, who spotted me during a birth and connected on multiple levels, sharing a mutual intention. She, along with La Kiesha @agapebirth_wellness round out our practice beautifully. You will be seeing more of her and Kiesha here! #students #studentmidwife #friends ...

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As a @SpinningBabies Aware Practitioner, I am keenly aware of the need for body work in pregnancy and postpartum. It is safe and supportive when done by someone who is specifically trained to support the pregnant and freshly delivered state.

These are unique phases where the body needs a different kind of care—slower, more intentional, and responsive to the nervous system.

I’ve recently started referring some of my clients to Cameron, and it’s been really supportive to have someone I trust to send people to.

The work is gentle, attuned, and focused on helping the body settle—not just working on tension, but supporting regulation and recovery as a whole.

If you’re currently pregnant, or postpartum and feeling like your body could use more support, this is something worth exploring. If you’re a person supporting someone who is pregnant you may need some self care too! Cameron, like us, is a fully mobile practice.

You can connect with him here → @knotsandhands.sd
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My student Breana @mysticmothering was at a baby shower when a fellow midwife asked her who her Preceptor was. The midwife then asked “Is it true that she keeps her birth tubs cold?” Breana, surprised, said no and inquired about why I might do that. “To shock the babies, so that they breath”….something to that effect. As many of you are aware I enjoy the science aspect of waterbirth, but more importantly is the babies experience of their birth as well as the mother’s experience. I have never promoted cold water as that is such a shock to the nervous system. The typical range is anywhere from 96 , if it’s a hot day/room, to 98 degrees. Baby does not need to be shocked to breathe: they breathe when they are introduced to the atmosphere. Many of you know the rest as some of my videos explain it quite thoroughly. We got a good laugh from that!! Richard is performing step 8 from our notebook we leave at the home at the Birth Prep Meeting: smooth the creases out! #waterbirth #homebirth #naturalbirth ...

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So….we got a dog! For those of you who know us will appreciate what a big deal this is. This is Hank and we knew him for 9 months before we got him. His family had to move and couldn’t keep all the animals they had. We had said “If you ever have to surrender Hank, we want first dibs”. It’s like he was always ours. He has been to 3 births, hanging out in the temperature controlled van. He LOVES the van. #midwifedog #miniaustralianshepard #deafdogsrock ...

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@MallorieBedard3 had a difficult first planned homebirth that ended in a necessary cesarean, with a different midwife team. We had been booked solid when she sought us out the first time aound so we were thrilled to be able to shepherd her with her second pregnancy. Story coming soon! Thank you @doulatamij Splendid hvbac! #vbac #homebirth #midwives #daughters ...

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When you attend a baby shower and see your other mamas and babies! ...

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So this happened…

I had the privilege of caring for my beautiful niece/client, @karamariefagan, and her partner, @zaidkdahhaj, throughout their pregnancy. During labor, after thoughtful discussion, we decided to transport due to a lack of descent and the need for pain management. As a former athlete with a background in gymnastics, soccer, diving, volleyball, and track, Kara faced unique challenges related to past injuries—something we cover in depth during our Birth Prep class so families understand all their options.

I accompanied them to the hospital, where it was later determined that a cesarean was necessary. At some point, Kara developed a fever, but the hospital team managed it well. Months later, I was shocked to learn that I was being investigated for negligence—not by the family, but by the hospital itself. Initially, I thought perhaps Kara’s dad, a doctor, had concerns, but that didn’t add up. He had attended our consultation and the Birth Prep class and understood exactly how we approach care.

It turns out the hospital initiated the investigation. I hadn’t fully realized that even when families choose to transport, hospitals can still take issue. @zaidkdahhaj may weigh in here, but this experience has been eye-opening in many ways.

Midwives, birth workers, families—have you experienced anything like this? Let’s talk about it.
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Working with Surrogacy requires a unique awareness. How each phrase is worded matters in a whole new way. Things I’m used to saying to a pregnant mama don’t quite translate the same way when speaking to a mama through IVF. One mama is serving and surrendering, the other is receiving and preparing. The beautiful shared bond between these two mothers was the life blood of this birth. I’ve noticed that first babies of any type (for either parent) usually have longer labors that match the need for deep surrender and humility. I prepared Rachael for this reality knowing that though Rachael had children prior- this labor would be more akin to giving birth for the first time as energetically it was for Sam and Jesse to become parents for the first time. The Birth Day Prep class was tailored to address some of the subtle nuance this situation would call for so that on the birthing day we all felt as prepared as possible. Even the immediate postpartum was very interesting! I had one mama that I had to monitor for bleeding and recovery while guiding the other through establishing bonding. For keeping the uterus toned and tight, being around Zion was important for Rachael. Richard was indispensable in navigating the two very different needs of each of the two fathers present, providing them the grounding and support that was so needed.

This was truly a moving experience as we were able to expand our learning with such beautiful souls!

We recognize that surrogacy & IVF can be controversial topics, however this is not the forum for debate. Please respect the journeys of these beautiful families.

#surrogacy #IVF #homebirth #waterbirth #waterbaby #surrogate #midwife #midwifelife #babies #birthphotography #naturalbirth #birthstory #birth
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How do midwives recuperate? We hug cows. @thegentlebarn ...

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The fully narrated story of Barbie & David’s beautiful twin birth! If you’d rather read the story than listen, it’s in the comments.

Narrated by: @catcassio
Sound design & editing by: @cassio.creative

#waterbirth #naturalbirth #homebirth #twinbirth #twins #twinsisters #spinningbabies #breech #breechbirth #waterbaby #midwife #doula #midwifelife #birthstory
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